glo and raine in the city: settling in…part 1
…in the city!
At least we hope we get some decent sleep in the coming days.
At around 4 pm we arrived in the city yesterday. (Para kaming lipat bahay, pati electric fan bitbit namin.) We “fixed” the room, put in our stuff –mostly clothes, toiletries and food. LOTs of food. I made the small bed and Raine went on to play with the landlady’s daughter. She is Raine’s classmate in grade 1. My mother and new sis-in-law helped us move in.
Then later in the afternoon, Raine and I went out to eat. We were just buying time after that, just to escape the heat outside and the heat inside our room. Before we noticed, it was past 7 pm already. Like a typical city, downtown Sorsogon is bustling with people everywhere. Everyone was in a hurry. Raine and I were still enjoying the A/C in an internet shop when suddenly the counter girls said they are about to close.
wtf?!
So it turned out that most shops and stores here close at 730. That’s when I realized this place is still barriotic. I spent 18 years in LB and at 9 pm, the night is considered still young. It doesn’t matter if it is Sunday night or Thursday night. So Raine and I started walking home. Raine was out in sleep number bed 1 at 830. He must be really tired. Besides, ang init dito sa city –another contributing factor to being tired.
Don’t be deceived by this modern facade (see photo above). For there still old-fashioned shops abound. I said old-fashioned, because the store is owned by a singkit-ang-mata person. He’d be sitting in front of the cash register while several girls attend to customers at the counter. All items bought will be coursed through to him including the payment. You get the picture. You can’t even queque anywhere. You just squeeze yourself in at the counter, hoping that one of the girls notice you.
So we passed by such a store and Raine suddenly fancied this small yo-yo. For 10 pesos I tried to get to the counter. Three to four girls passed me by and I tried to get the attention of each one of them. Galit na ako. Pagod pa! Uminit ang batok ko!
I was about to leave the 10 pesos at the counter in front of one girl. The girl said something…something like I should wait blah blah blah. I snapped at the girl! Sorry sya 3 sana silang yakyakan ko. Eh sya lang yung naiwan sa harap ko. So I said (with matching nginig ng katawan at init sa buong mukha) :
Sa halagang 10-pesos paghihinyatin mo ako ng isang oras?! Kanina pa kayong tatlo na paka-ang-kaang dito sa harapan ko di nyo ako pinapansin?! Eto na ang yo-yo nyo di ko na yan bibilhin!
Then I started to walk out.
(Of course dahil iba ang bicol lingo dito sa city than doon sa barrio namin, i was speaking in tagalog.)
Tameme ang babae. She hurriedly took the yo-yo and the ten pesos then went to the cashier. Then very slowly she wrapped the yo-yo in some kind of manila paper. I grabbed the thing out of her hand and marched out of the store, Raine holding my hand. Everyone turned their heads at me while these were all happening. I didn’t care. I still don’t care! Bahala sila. Eh di mag-reklamo sila. Eh totoo namang super-bagal ng kilos ng mga sales lady na yun.
I grew up in such a store you know. My “lolo” na singkit ang mata who owned it hates it when costumers were waiting. Costumers shouldn’t even queque in front of your store. Everyone at he counter should be snappy. So that the costumers will come back.
He said even if you only earn 1-peso per item in your store as long as you sold the item right away, then it is good business. There shouldn’t be cobwebs in the shelves where your items are sitting. Even me and my brothers used to help in packing the items sold. Kasi nga di puede ang mabagal kumilos. And there were like 10 people working in lolo’s merchandising store. He was selling everything, from buttons to rice.
He wasn’t really my blood lolo but treated me and my brother like his real grandkids. Just because our parents were working in his stores. That time we two were the only kids in that store. Mahilig si lolo sa mga bata, suwerte daw sa negosyo. Lalo na pag lalake. He escaped mainland China in his teens and made it to HongKong and then later to Manila, where he and his brothers built businesses.
In the store I mentioned above, I wanted to have a litany of I know where you sales lady are coming from. But I hated the way they were moving soo slow so I really snapped. Raine was even cowering behind me, because I was angry at some people.
You know, I learned basic math in lolo’s store. Hayyy. Memories, memories.
Yan muna…there’s a part 2 to this. ![]()

July 6th, 2009 at 11:24 am
hi, konting lamig po ng ulo hehehe, hulaan ko tabi, sa hollywood store ini ni bobie liao, haranihon lang po location ko
dida sa store.
July 6th, 2009 at 12:05 pm
hay naku Mam Glo I have a number of experiences like yours with ‘bobitang’ and walang ‘pakels’ na tindera. Eto ha if you ask for a merchandise na medyo mahina ang boses mo, di ka papansinin. At kung medyo simple lang suot mo di ka uunahin. Nagtitimpi lang ako kung hindi marami na akong nakaaway, which is not my nature naman. Pero nakaka-babae eh.
July 6th, 2009 at 12:26 pm
Hehehe! Glo, parehas an isip namon ni Becoolano.:D Naglaog sa isip ko, sa Hollywood ini nangyari. Kasi irog talaga sada mga tindera didto niyan. Mga pa-deadma effect!
San grade school days ko, very attentive man an mga tindera didto. Halos kilala na ninda kami sa face kasi regular costumers kami san sisters ko & classmates/friends. Pagkita ko nag-iriba na an mga ugali san new generation niyan, kadamuan kasi sa tindera niyan sa Hollywood mga youth. Bagan mga wara na pag-galang. San ’80s mas polite an mga salesladies sa Hollywood.
Tama an ginibo mo, Glo. Para makapag-isip sinda.;D
July 6th, 2009 at 1:15 pm
becoolano and babs: hahahaha! tama nang gad! bakita nyo alam??? hahaha! so may history na pala talaga ang store na yan sa mabagal na kilos. hayyy. sorry sila super pagod lang ako kahapon kaya di na ako nakapag-pigil.
normally i am most patient, i just keep quiet even if i so want to complain. first time yang kahapon after so many years that i snapped like that. i didn’t even snap when i picked-up my very first authenticated birth certificate in Sta. Mesa NSO in 1998. yung kasama ko ang nagalit! hahahaha. minura-mura nung kaibigan ko yung counter girl. kawawang babae. yung systema nila doon in fact ang bulok.
since then i just request authenticated BCs online. ayaw ko na humarap sa mga taong inefficient kung maaari.
July 6th, 2009 at 1:19 pm
yami: yes, mabuti yung paminsan-minsan nakarinig sila ng reklamo para naman magising. kaso baka di pa rin matuto ang mga yon. tiyak pagtalikod ko kahapon they will say something like: ano ba namang babae yon, eh sampung piso lang naman ang binili, daming reklamo?
hahahaha.
pinoys kasi normally don’t complain normally sa services na kung anu-ano. tipo bang yung puede na yan mentality ang pinapairal. so even if he doesn’t get what he deserves, kasi nagbayad ka naman di ba? so sasabihin nya eh sige na…hayaan mo na. puede na yan. okay na yan.
ganyan din ako dati kasi. kahit i see something to complain about i dont say a thing. but i’ve learned to voice out my complaints para magkaron ng pagbabago di ba? hayyy.
July 6th, 2009 at 1:20 pm
oy becoolano! palagay ko nakikita mo lang ako padaan-daan sa area na yan! hahaha. mag potpot ka naman, baka mabangga na kita, di ka nagsasabi.
thanks nga pala for frequenting my blog.
July 6th, 2009 at 1:27 pm
Yap, Glo. They’re known for that, hehe! Kawawa naman si Bobbie Liao kasi nawawalan siya ng costumers coz of his inefficient staff. But he should reprimand them, it’s his duty as the owner of the store.
We also avail of NSO’s online services na lang kesa makipag-away sa staff nila. Parehas din naman ang gastos kasi mamamasahe ka pa pagpunta sa office nila in Legaspi/Manila. At least, we avoid getting fed up with them, hehe! Kaka-stress baga!
July 6th, 2009 at 1:33 pm
exactly babes. least stress kung online request ka sa NSO.
July 6th, 2009 at 1:34 pm
i mean babs! hahahaha.
hmmm…sa susunod yung owner naman ang yakyakan ko!
on second thought, ayaw ko na pumasok sa store na yan, EVER. hmpt!
July 6th, 2009 at 3:19 pm
hahaha, the first time i visited your blog, aram ko po na matutuparan ko ikaw maski pan-o, hehehe, mala baga kay lain nagsala when one early morning last month habang naghuhulat ako sa grade4 ko na boy makatapos magliwan and drink his milk choc( aram mo na siguro ini, bawal magplug hehehe) nagluwas and palabay labay baya ako sa may gate namon san one-way rerutoy ni LuDog, nakita ko kamo ni Raine na saktong nagbababa sa jeep from Gubat going to school, mala kay dali dali ko baga na sinabi kan kumander (an pinakamahal kong asawa) na at last natyempuhan ko man guihapon an daragang magayon hahahaha, nan saro pa, kaklase din san pamangkin ko si Raine mo hehehe, kaya ayaw lang kay magtutupar gud kirita and one more thing palan, ayaw lang din kay ipaabot ko kay tio bobbie ini na concern mo, thanks and regards, God bless!
July 6th, 2009 at 3:37 pm
becoolano: hahaha! small world indeed!
palabay labay baya ako sa may gate namon san one-way rerutoy ni LuDog, nakita ko kamo ni Raine na saktong nagbababa sa jeep from Gubat going to school.
— HAHAHAHHAHA!!!!!!!! malamang nakasimangot na ako dito kahit maaga pa.
July 6th, 2009 at 3:39 pm
hey glo! ang dami ko di nabasa a. wow nag-move na pala kayo ni raine sa city. pano ang pro-blogging mo pala?
July 6th, 2009 at 3:45 pm
manay! something’s wrong sa site mo! puro kuto! hahaha!
July 6th, 2009 at 3:45 pm
hello clem. that’s not a problem, daming internet shop dito. pumipili lang ako ng di masyadong mainit. for some reason mga shops dito, they dont turn on the A/C. grabe miss ko tuloy ang aircon dyan! the best talaga. nagtitipid siguro mga shops. pero kung full blown aircon sila i bet mas daming papasok. also, for the computers too.
July 6th, 2009 at 3:46 pm
i see a lot of errors dun sa taas. baka me nagalaw ka na naman hehe
July 6th, 2009 at 3:47 pm
reynz, refresh ka, wala na.
July 6th, 2009 at 3:47 pm
Glo! Nga pala! I heard na one of the councilors ba in Sorsogon is Hazel Diesta… I don’t know kung ma-remember pa ako ni Hazel pero barkada ko yan kadto hahaha
July 6th, 2009 at 3:50 pm
amo, in-refresh ko na, yada na naman sa taas hahaha
July 6th, 2009 at 3:51 pm
itanong natin ke becoolano baka kilala nya. alam mo meron akong mga pinsan sa barrio, yan ang apelyido nila. di ba lahat ng apaelyidong D, tiga-Bacon?
July 6th, 2009 at 5:29 pm
natumbok mo ang iuyaman ko sa sorsogon: the fact na city ini yet everything closes at 7:30. most of the people I know here are already sleeping by 9. maybe because home is easily reached kaya the tendency of the people is to go home once they finished their business. unlike in manila where grabe ang traffic that one would prefer to while away the time while waiting for the traffic to lessen…
ang night life didi, irinuman…hay….
July 6th, 2009 at 6:03 pm
hahahaha! garo man palan sa barrio!
hahahaha. pero sa barrio mi, mas malala. meron nga 7 pm tulog na lahat. hahaha!
July 7th, 2009 at 3:45 am
Dito rin naman, gusto ng mga tao makauwi agad. ang matagal naman dito biyahe rin kasi sa city ang mga offices at ang mga bahay ay sa mga suburbs. long distance travel na train ang mga gamit. pagdating sa mga stations,nakapark ang mga kotse.
pero wala kang makitang mga tao sa kalye. walang naglalakad. kaya nakakatakot din at nakakalungkot.
pati mga kapitbahay walang pakialaman.
pero ang mga bata dito may school bus kahit public school.
July 7th, 2009 at 8:40 am
hello again manay cat,
super inggit ako sa school bus!
very convenient siguro for parents.
July 7th, 2009 at 8:45 am
hi reyna elena,
yup, naging municipal councilor si Azel Diesta ng Sorsogon way back, isa sya sa nagsulong maging city kasama ni mayor LD ng bacon noon, pro unfortunately, hindi na ulit naelect sa city council, presently, sya me hawak ng urban poor committee ng city hall ngaun (kinuha sya ni LD dahil close sila hehehe), at paminsan minsang bumibisita sa sts peter & paul cathedral at pinapraktis pa rin ang choir, sa mga special events na lang po si azel nakakaattend, sana kilala ko name mo para mabanggit ko kay azel na me barkada syang magaling magblog ngaun hehehe.
July 10th, 2009 at 2:13 pm
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